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Question by sind3r3lla:

How can I show him I care and like having sex with him?

I think my man uses sex as pain belive me I think so.Will my point is after he cheated one me I dont like having so much sex and now I think he thinks I dont care.And all I do is bring up the cheating thing what should I do or can do?




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Answer by fuehrer45
well, it all depends on how long ago he cheated on you. if its kinda recent, you might still feel a little awkward because of the fact that he was with someone else at the same time with you, and that could be normal. its obvious that you feel that way too.
also, you shouldn't bring up the fact that he cheated. if you do, you are going to drive him away even further. he will feel more remore, guilty, anger toward himself (especially if he really does love you, and if he does, and you bring it up all the time, its not gonna be worth the trouble).
try to ignore that, its like starting all over again. you dont wanna bring up things from the past. and i tell you this because i went through this once. i cheated, but she took me back. for a long time i would feel really guilty and angry towards myself. she would bring it up and only make worse. but this was only at the beginning. couple years later and after that, if she brought it up, it would not really hurt and we would only laugh at how stupid i actually was to cheat on her and risking losing our love, you know.
so, try to not mention it. its gonna be hard to get over it, and you will not forget it, of course. its not easy, but if you are as mature as you think you are, and you really love each other, there is no reson for it to not work. g'luck!!!

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